Unwanted solicitation could get you booted off this site!

[Brew crew]

Thank you Lamont!

As a GOS, when I had heard about this, it bothered me. I absolutely appreciate SL forum so much - the education and support I/we have received here is more than I can say! :clap: It is a great place to get information, support, farckle resources, etc that I would hate to not be able to visit it!

Will tell you, we all had confidence that you would not let this happen on your board and appreciate your handling it. hyea:

Michele

 

[Yazz]

Thank You Lamont!

I've been on this board for a while now, and have always been treated with respect.

SpyderLovers is more than just a forum. We are family.

Hope the Lady feels our love going out to her...

 

[Dudley]

Lamont, your post was honest and very to-the-point. Some of the posts on this thread are trying to be funny, yet I find no humor in them. Unwanted solicitations are a serious matter.

 

[lyonsden]

Lamont :2thumbs:. Totally agree!!

 

[MLavore]

But really.

It's kind of disturbing that someone would be so desperate as to see a forum like this as an avenue for such things.

I understand being lonely but geez.

 

[SpyderAnn01]

Alot of judgement here with only one side of the story.

Would love to read the emails and pm's sent back to this male , because most men I know would not continue to pursue a female if rejected in the beginning.

Just speaking the truth folks, this is not Lifetime Movie Channel.

Randy, it is not okay to ask for inappropriate things ever not even once.

 

[arntufun]

Randy, it is not okay to ask for inappropriate things ever not even once.

Ann, Where was the post that anyone said anything inappropriate ????? Your speculating that this male did along with everyone else. :lecturef_smilie:


Lamonts post was very vague and it's none of our business what happened, but there are 3 sides to this story. His, hers and the truth. Thats all I ask is everyone keep that in mind before casting stones. I'm not trying to be insensitive, but it could just be a big misunderstanding and it's unfortunate Lamont had to be dragged into it. :thumbup:

 

[spyder3]

opcorn:opcorn:opcorn:

 

[Sarge707]

I Read everything and never really read anything of this nature BUT if it offended someone it needs to STOP!!
I,m glad Political stuff is Frowned Upon because it Just makes enemies of Friends?nojoke

 

[BajaRon]

Sorry you had to to this Lamont... but like most everyone else, I'm glad you did.

I am one of the first to poke a little fun into the mix, but some things are just too serious not to take them as such.

And have a little faith in Lamont! Have you ever seen him pull the trigger on someone without giving them more rope than they probably deserve?

We already have more details on this issue than Lamont probably wanted to give out. But for the sake of the community he felt this was the best way to go. Took some courage not to just sweep this under the rug like many would have done.

Lamont has done a very good job with Spyderlovers, the forum and the owners. I'd say he is right on with this call.

 

[Blue Star]

Sorry you had to to this Lamont... but like most everyone else, I'm glad you did.

I am one of the first to poke a little fun into the mix, but some things are just too serious not to take them as such.

And have a little faith in Lamont! Have you ever seen him pull the trigger on someone without giving them more rope than they probably deserve?

We already have more details on this issue than Lamont probably wanted to give out. But for the sake of the community he felt this was the best way to go. Took some courage not to just sweep this under the rug like many would have done.

Lamont has done a very good job with Spyderlovers, the forum and the owners. I'd say he is right on with this call.

:agree: and have nothing more to say, but wow :yikes:

 

[Big Arm]

Sorry you had to to this Lamont... but like most everyone else, I'm glad you did.

I am one of the first to poke a little fun into the mix, but some things are just too serious not to take them as such.

And have a little faith in Lamont! Have you ever seen him pull the trigger on someone without giving them more rope than they probably deserve?

We already have more details on this issue than Lamont probably wanted to give out. But for the sake of the community he felt this was the best way to go. Took some courage not to just sweep this under the rug like many would have done.

Lamont has done a very good job with Spyderlovers, the forum and the owners. I'd say he is right on with this call.

:agree: :clap: :clap: :clap:

 

[Netminder]

I think you handled this just right Lamont! Keep it real!:clap::clap:

 

[coz]

worked up

this thread needs a lid. just like the M C thread got.:thumbup:

 

[kevorama]

Zero tolerance. Bounce him/them out. This is not match.com or adultfriendfinders.com. I think that most all members of this site would agree with that.

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[SpyderAnn01]

Randy, the woman told her side of the story on another site and asked what she should do. She gave more info on the event than has been given here.