Not having a bike since 2018 tells me you haven’t ridden for quite sometime.  Going to a spyder with no experience in riding one can be challenging and discouraging at same time.  To give yourself and your lady friend a fair chance to feel comfortable and to give yourselves the feeling that you made a good decision, I would recommend a used RTL.  There are sometimes good deals show up on this forum to take an advantage of.   Anything less than a RTL for two up riding may not serve you the best  experience and find yourselves turned off.
				
			 
	 
 
		 
 
		 
 
		 
 
		 
 
		