The local dealer has one 2018 left - it's a white/chrome RTL. Personally I wanted the dark model, I don't care for chrome. And they're asking just under $25k for it. There a few places within 100 or so miles that'll sell the same RTL for $22k. So I'm not willing to give them the additional $3k if I don't have to. Also, iMoto has 2018 RTLs for $23k delivered, and "regular" RTs for $19k. According to iMoto, the rebates are already factored into their prices.
I doubt the wife will ever drive the Spyder, she just wants to ride on the back which is ok by me. I'd love it if she rode her own, but I don't see that happening. I'd prefer the F3, but she needs the backs support of the RT, so there it is. Maybe some day I can afford both, but not at first. Also, I have to take into account the communications - we'll need in helmet units to go with whatever we buy.
I expect a certain amount of learning curve which is why I posted my take on my test ride - I was hoping it wasn't just me. As for ATV/Snowmobiles experience - I've never ridden a snowmobile; the few times I lived where it might be useful, I didn't have the fund for it. ATVs, that's a different store. I rode ATCs in the early 80s. Malign them if you will, but I preferred the three wheelers over the quads. I had the Kawasaki Tecate, one of the biggest ATCs you could get at the time, and wish I still had it. So I've felt the difference between 2-3 wheels, but it's been a while.