Quick update: Went to the doctor all checked out ok but my hip has such a big hematoma in it that even my willy is bruised now, luckily it is just something visible and no pain or loss of function as the wife noticed it

. Still nothing on the damage assessment on the bike from the dealer.
I spoke with the adjuster yesterday and he is going to do what he can to keep from totaling it but things are what they are. Just waiting on the numbers to come in.
CloverCrawler,
Dude! I'm so glad you're here to tell us about it. That was a close call. And, for your sake I'm glad you're willy is still useable! LOL!
Some observations:
1. Don't let the friggin dealer push you around on the ordered accessories. Like some have said, I think you need to keep them on order, and get yourself a new ride to install them on, but, if you decide to not do that, hound their butts until they give you the cancellations, and obligatory refunds.
2. COVID has of course caused a lot of products to experience long backorders, but something that COVID has affected that should make a positive difference for is: The value of used recreational vehicles has increased substantially since the pandemic began. This should result in the insurance company valuing your bike at a much higher dollar rate, which will in turn make paying off your loan more realistic. You couldn't have picked a better time to total a vehicle out, if that winds up being the case. Just know the insurance company is going try to offer as low as they can get away with, so you might have to negotiate with them a higher rate, due to the fact that values have increased.
3. I encourage you to not let this incident put an end to your riding of motorbikes. Instead, consider it a learning experience to make you a better rider. Most of us long term riders have had experiences here and there that have taught us valuable lessons. Lessons that can only be learned by time in the saddle.
4. I appreciate your humility, and it shows in the fact that you are admitting that there were some things that you could've done that would've possibly resulted in not crashing. Most riders would not admit that; even though most of the time, it's true. The very first excuse that most riders throw out is "It's all the cages fault". But, you aren't doing that. I admire you for that.
5. This reminds me of an article I read about 5-6 years ago in Rider Magazine pertaining to motorcycle accidents involving automobiles. The article was about an extensive research that some motorcycle entity (I think it was the AMA, not sure about that) had done. It was an in depth study of all motorcycle accidents that also involved another vehicle, and what actually caused them. The article stated that even though most motorcyclist will say you have to watch out for cars and trucks on the road because they not paying attention, and are actually "out to get us", research actually showed that 72% of the accidents were avoidable, and the chances of the accident happening at all were actually enhanced by rider error. The most common errors we think of are speeding, riding erratically, and dangerous, and such. But, the article spent the most time on the rider error of not knowing and keeping constant awareness of our surroundings, and using the correct protocols of spacing between us and vehicles forward, aft, and each side of us, and approaching, entering, and going through intersections, and the correct protocol for that scenario. It also talked about the rider error of riding at night, which increases the dangers of not being seen. I like the way you're giving some thought to the accident, and what might've been your role in it happening. That's a leap forward toward making your riding safer.
Hang in there. My prayers are for a quick recovery.
Big Lenny