That was the only issue we had in buying our RT: "who would sit in the front seat?" She has had her motorcycle endorsement for about 30 years (and we are both a bit on the control freak side). But after about a 3 weeks of riding behind and getting her 'windshield time' in, she is getting closer and closer to her own Spyder. She doesn't want the RT though, she wants the sportier RS, which makes me even more nervous as she has a bit of a heavy wrist.
I, too, feel that "teenage-parent-driving" nervousness thing when she is ryding alone, but I just try to chill and act nonchalant like it's" all cool." (while silently throwing up in my mouth.) It's not that I don't trust her motorcycle skills, but we all know a Spyder is different from riding a regular motorcycle and then there is still the Charlotte traffic. The bottom line is: I value her life more than mine and being on any bike has some inherent risks. I just worry when I can't physically be The One minimizing those risks for her. In reality, she may be a better ryder than I am, but that doesn't mean I will stop fretting over it.
So... know anyone selling an RS in the Carolinas?