Uh... actually... I live in a very nice neighborhood. Not bragging, but it is an upscale golf course community. It's the 2nd highest per capita income zone in Charlotte NC. I mention all that
only because just a few weeks ago, some "individuals" walked into the Harris Teeter grocery store, just a couple miles or so away, and
after they got all the money, opened fire. (Thankfully they did not hit anyone.) This was the THIRD upscale neighborhood grocery store in our area they had robbed at gun point in less than a month. A mere 4-5 years ago, a woman walking her dog in the neighborhood next to ours was dragged into the bushes. The guy was never caught and the story does not end well. In the parking lot of a restaurant,
a mile from my house, a
pregnant woman was killed in the parking lot just a few months ago.
About 5700 feet from my front door!
I trained and got my CWP once we got the Spyder last year and started touring in remote areas where oft times you feel like you can hear banjos and Ned Beatty squealing. My wife was not excited about the permit or weapon, but now, after all the local crime, she wants one. It IS occasionally a hassle to take off the weapon and store away when going to a restaurant that serves alcohol, but I feel safer carrying when traveling, riding or when I feel the area I am going to may not be the best. Evidently that now includes my local grocery store.
My point is: whether you choose to carry or not, that is YOUR choice, but
violent crime is no long "choosing" to stay in the "'hood" or remote areas. I appreciate the pacifist sentiment. In 1950, I would have been right there with it (if I would have been alive) but it's 2012 and it's not June Cleaver and Dick Van Dyke anymore. Sociopaths come to nice neighborhoods because that's where the money is and secure-feeling "rich" people are less likely to blow their fool heads off during a home invasion. (Bust into a home in East L.A. in the middle of the night and see what happens.) One of the best sentiments I saw here was something like "
if the bad guys don't know who's carrying, maybe they will think twice." Even sociopaths don't want to look into the barrel of a 9mm.
I respect anyone's choice not to carry. I recently talked a group of about a half dozen ladies in our neighborhood AWAY from getting concealed permits because in their specific cases, I didn't think it was safe for them or anyone else. I offered to go shotgun, taser and pepper spray shopping with them instead. I also offered to take them to the range. Loaded weapons are not for everyone. Just as motorcycles are not. Training, mindset, discipline.
- Would I give up my wallet & Spyder without a fight? Probably, if I thought it was safe for us to do so. Does that encourage bad behavior? Yes, but unfortunately at that moment, my focus is on surviving the robbery, not curing the world's social problems.
- Would I do everything I can to get a away from a bad situation? Very likely. I want to get away from trouble, safely. I'd rather be thought of as a coward than risk my family's life or well being. Unfortunately, I am getting too old and fat to run away successfully, ergo the CWP.
- Would I punch someone's ticket, if my wife, life (or someone else's) were in mortal or physical danger? In a heartbeat. And sleep like a baby that night. Does this mean Firefly will think I am a bad person? I can live with that.
- Should someone break into my house? There is nothing there worth dying for. Trust me.
It was mentioned (to the effect of) "
nobody, not even the most violent scumbags, deserve to be shot". I disagree with that. There are people in this world that rape, molest, abuse, violate and commit heinous acts of brutality and murder for the sheer sake of enjoying it or because they can. Anyone who says that "no one" deserves "being stopped", has never been around TRUE bad guys. Good for you.
I said all that and yet, I still haven't seen a purple school bus in my neighborhood....