The way I calculate it is to take into account the entire vehicle weight, at the center of mass. That is the physics that I remember for a dead load. That weight and position, combined with the distance of the COM forward of the axle, and the distance from the axle to the hitch, will allow you to calculate the addition in tongue weight when you load the vehicle. For a tilt trailer, you also have to calculate to the pivot point for the bed, to make sure it will tilt back down. For my enclosed trailer, I had to do a lot of calculation, to get the right positions for anywhere from 1-4 bikes, in various combinations. I was then able to place the chock mounts for these combinations. I did the same for a Spyder by itself, and a Spyder with a bike. You want at least 10-20% of the loaded trailer weight as tongue weight for good handling. If you have a 1000 pound loaded Spyder, with the back of the front fenders a foot ahead of the trailer axle, and the hitch ten feet from the axle, you will add about 100 pounds to the tongue weight in that position. If you move the Spyder COM ahead to two feet in front of the axle, you will add 200 pounds to the tongue weight. Don't forget that the nose overhangs quite a bit. If the front of the trailer is raised, you may not to be able to roll the Spyder as far forward as you need, with a short trailer.
Have fun with your calculations... You are very smart to be taking this into consideration up front. I worked mine out on graph paper. That may be helpful to you, too.