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Update on Bytemi and Little Bytemi (Antonia) :)

Bytemi

New member
I am sorry to worry everyone. My husband (who returned yesterday safely) has been gone and I have had a lot on my plate.

I have Uveitis which is swelling and irritation of the Uvea, the middle layer of the eye. The uvea provides most of the blood supply to the retina. This is fairly common in people with MS. When it flared up my husband was already gone and it hit me so fast that there was no correcting or avoiding it. I have spent most of August barley able to see. I received two steroid injections in my eyes to try and reduce the swelling (yes it hurts as much as it sounds) but unfortunetly, I had an allergic reaction and my eyes swelled almost completely shut. I went to the doctor again on Friday and I was told that the jelly that protects the retina has seperated and my middle eye is now bleeding, causing big dark floaters further decreasing my vision. Believe it or not, I am seeing so much better today, than I have seen in weeks. The injections appear to be working and hopefully I will be get back the majority of my vision.

Even with the decrease (a very blurry 20/45, worse with close up work) I was told that I could keep my license and continue driving. So I have managed to keep Antonia on track with her therapy. I told her that if my driving scared her, she just had to tell me and I would pull over and we would find another way around. She agreed and did a great job helping me. She has moved on to the next stage of therapy and is doing office therapy once a week and home therapy four times a week. She has also started a Dynamic Reader program that she completes each night and Doctor Davis e-mails her and tells her how she is doing.

On top of the eye issues and therapy, my oldest daughter has developed neurological problems and we are in the process of trying to figure what is wrong. So far we have confirmation that she has Raynaud's disease and we go for an MRI on Saturday to see if there is more. I am hoping and praying that she does not have MS, would not wish it on anyone! To further complicate things again, my mother-in-law had a stroke and has lost the majority of her vision and she has a brain anerism.

I have felt very helpless, useless and all alone for the last month and honestly, my ability to see clearly and work on a computer has been limited to work, to much strain to do it any other time. I have missed all of my fellow spyder lovers and I can't wait for a little more improvement so I can ryde the spyder again. Antonia and I have both missed it greatly and we can't wait. Now that my husband is home, hopefully we can get back to somewhat of normal life. Well normal in the fact that now I can have some help with all the medical issues that have developed.
 
:shocked: Adele,
You're a fighter and a survivor; we know that you'll get through this too.
But I'm sending along a prayer anyway! :pray:
 
Teddy & I are keeping all of you in our prayers

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My husband usually gets mad at me when I make the statement "This too shall pass". I don't know why. With MS that thoughts comes into your mind a lot! That and "you can do this, nothing that you haven't dealt with in the past!". Thank you for the prays.
 
YOUR CROSSES

I'm rendered speechless. So I'll just :pray::pray::pray::pray::pray::pray::pray::pray::pray::pray::pray::pray::pray::pray::pray:..Mike
 
My Grampa Denman was the wisest man that I ever had the priviledge of knowing.
He once told me, "The strongest steel has always been tempered in fire."
That has always helped me find what I need to get through a tough spell.
 
My Grampa Denman was the wisest man that I ever had the priviledge of knowing.
He once told me, "The strongest steel has always been tempered in fire."
That has always helped me find what I need to get through a tough spell.

I have been asked "would you give the MS back if you could." The answer is simple "No, I would not be the person I am today if I did not have the MS. I like me just the way I am!".

What does not kill me makes me stronger. Do I get depressed? Sometimes. Do I feel overwhelmed? Often. Do I give up? NEVER!

These are my cards and I proudly own them!
 
Having had family members (sister , sister-in-law) that had the disease, I can relate what you are going thru. Hope that eveything works out for the better, and I'm glad you're keeping your spirits up. Stay strong, and keep the Spyder family in the loop, if possible. :pray:
 
Just reading that made my eyes hurt. OUCH! I've had eye damage before and I feel for ya.
:pray::pray: towards you and your family and all get better.
 
Eyesight

I am sorry to worry everyone. My husband (who returned yesterday safely) has been gone and I have had a lot on my plate.

I have Uveitis which is swelling and irritation of the Uvea, the middle layer of the eye. The uvea provides most of the blood supply to the retina. This is fairly common in people with MS. When it flared up my husband was already gone and it hit me so fast that there was no correcting or avoiding it. I have spent most of August barley able to see. I received two steroid injections in my eyes to try and reduce the swelling (yes it hurts as much as it sounds) but unfortunetly, I had an allergic reaction and my eyes swelled almost completely shut. I went to the doctor again on Friday and I was told that the jelly that protects the retina has seperated and my middle eye is now bleeding, causing big dark floaters further decreasing my vision. Believe it or not, I am seeing so much better today, than I have seen in weeks. The injections appear to be working and hopefully I will be get back the majority of my vision.

Even with the decrease (a very blurry 20/45, worse with close up work) I was told that I could keep my license and continue driving. So I have managed to keep Antonia on track with her therapy. I told her that if my driving scared her, she just had to tell me and I would pull over and we would find another way around. She agreed and did a great job helping me. She has moved on to the next stage of therapy and is doing office therapy once a week and home therapy four times a week. She has also started a Dynamic Reader program that she completes each night and Doctor Davis e-mails her and tells her how she is doing.

On top of the eye issues and therapy, my oldest daughter has developed neurological problems and we are in the process of trying to figure what is wrong. So far we have confirmation that she has Raynaud's disease and we go for an MRI on Saturday to see if there is more. I am hoping and praying that she does not have MS, would not wish it on anyone! To further complicate things again, my mother-in-law had a stroke and has lost the majority of her vision and she has a brain anerism.

I have felt very helpless, useless and all alone for the last month and honestly, my ability to see clearly and work on a computer has been limited to work, to much strain to do it any other time. I have missed all of my fellow spyder lovers and I can't wait for a little more improvement so I can ryde the spyder again. Antonia and I have both missed it greatly and we can't wait. Now that my husband is home, hopefully we can get back to somewhat of normal life. Well normal in the fact that now I can have some help with all the medical issues that have developed.

I went to an orthopedic DR because I was having trouble with the left knee that he put in. After x-rays and blood tests he said( this is no lie. I don't know what is the matter with your knee) He then told me to go see my family Dr. After a visit with my familyDR, he said the ortho DR said I had the gout in my knee. I was put on a drug for the gout. After a while my right eye started to bother me.:yikes: After a visit to an eye dr, I was told the medicine I was put on caused the problem in my right eye. Now when I look through my right eye everything is dark because of the damage to the retina.:banghead: The problem I had with my left knee was that it was loose. Had to have a new knee put in.:gaah: So much for DRs
 
Sorry to be missing - Another Update

Hi everyone, I have been missing for well over two months now and I would like to explain why and give an update on Antonia and her therapy. First the good news.

My oldest daughter receive a clean bill of health from the Neurologist, the headaches were apparently becaused by a vision problem sort of like Antonia's but not as sever. New glasses and she is doing great!

Antonia's therapy is going really well. She is improving every week. The last month has been hard on us all (I will explain in a minute) so she decided she could do her home therapy without us. She just wants to get better. Antoinia is doing great in school all B's and we are very proud of her because of how hard she is working.

Now for the bad news. My husband's Mom passed away in September. The surgery to remove the brain aneurysm did not go as planned due to her congestive heart failure. Her brain was denied oxgen for too long. Erik and I barely made it to Oregon before they removed her life support. We stayed with his Dad for about a week and half to help him make arrangements and get use to not having his wife around. I can tell you, I couldn't image loving someone for 47 years and then having them gone. It was a heart breaking time. Marie was a warm hearted great person and her family and community lost a great asset when she passed.

When we got home and tried to return to life as normal, work, school, therapy, my dog Sasha started having seizures. She was unable to go up and down the stairs without falling over and shacking. It was scary and she sounded like she was in so much pain! We got her to vet and found that she had congestive heart failure and the seizures were being caused by lack of oxgen to the brain. We put Sasha to sleep after 2 days of no improvements. My poor little puppy. I know Mother died - Dog died, shouldn't be the same but it is. Sasha was my compainion when Erik gets deployed. She is greatly missed.

So as we were recovering from loss of Sasha, I got a call from my Bio-Mom in New York. My Grandmother was dieing. She had been diagnosed with kidney cancer in September (while we were gone) and they removed her left kidney and thought they had gotten it all, but they didn't. By the time they realized that is was still spreading the cancer had infected every organ in her body and her spine. Grandma was in unbearable pain and just wanted it to end. She passed away about a week and half later. So once again we were gone in New York trying to pay our respects and get home before Sandy hit (Oh the damage from Sandy will have to saved for another time). My Grandmother for all intense and purposes was like my Mother growing up. My Bio-Mom left me and my brothers and sisters when I was 2. She just didn't come home, didn't want to be a Mom anymore. My Grandmother stepped up and help my father raise us. As hard as it was to image loving someone for 47 years and then having them gone, I am now in the place of thinking about loving someone for 69 years and then having them gone. My Grandfather has cried non-stop for over 2 weeks, he is crushed and there is nothing anyone can do about it.

So with all the stress of funerals and death, plus work (I have a great and understand employer), therapy and just trying to move on with life my MS is kicking me repeatly. But this too shall pass. I pray that things settle down, because I honestly don't think I could take another loss right now.
 
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Adele,
It sure sounds as if somebody stuffed a bag over your family's head, and then sucker-punched them! :shocked:
Prayers going out to you and yours! :pray::pray::pray::pray:
 
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Adele,
It sure sounds as if somebody stuffed a bag over your family's head, and then sucker-punched them! :shocked:
Prayers going out to you and yours! :pray::pray::pray::pray:

Thanks Bob, I am sorry I didn't answer you PM, I received t shortly after Marie passed and I didn't want to speak to anyone.
 
SYMPATHY

Adele, this is not a wisecrack.....But if you didn't have Bad luck you wouldn't have any Luck at all......I will pray for you and your Family :pray::pray::pray::pray::pray::pray::pray::pray::pray::pray::pray::pray::pray::pray::pray::pray::pray::pray::pray::pray::pray::pray::pray::pray::pray::pray::pray::pray::pray::pray::pray: Mike
 
Adele, this is not a wisecrack.....But if you didn't have Bad luck you wouldn't have any Luck at all......I will pray for you and your Family :pray::pray::pray::pray::pray::pray::pray::pray::pray::pray::pray::pray::pray::pray::pray::pray::pray::pray::pray::pray::pray::pray::pray::pray::pray::pray::pray::pray::pray::pray::pray: Mike

Mike statement is true and false at the same time. I can walk into just about any Casino and win, but yes when it comes to my personal life, my luck SUCKS!!!!!!!!!!!! It is challenges like this that have made me who I am. :D But seriously, I don't think I can take much more.
 
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MANY MORE PRAYERS

Mike statement is true and false at the same time. I can walk into just about any Casino and win, but yes when it comes to my personal life, my luck SUCKS!!!!!!!!!!!! It is challenges like this that have made me who I am. :D But seriously, I don't think I can take much more.

Hang in there girl......and start going to CASINO'S .......just kidding.......no really sometimes money helps :thumbup: Mike
 
Hang in there girl......and start going to CASINO'S .......just kidding.......no really sometimes money helps :thumbup: Mike

OH I love going to Casino's but rule one is never go with money you can't afford to lose. Well with the shared cost of 2 funerals, I don't think I can follow the above rule any time soon. :banghead:

But thats OK. This too shall pass.
 
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