Bytemi-- while I always agree to follow Scotty's and Ron's advice, I wouldn't panic yet. As noted, "the gas smell" is common to the Spyder, in large part because of overfilling/evap canister issues. I've had sporadic gas smells on my bike from the day I bought it. 95% of the time, no smell at all. 5% of that time, WTH? Obviously, if a recall hasn't been done or it's a more serious issue, get it checked out, but don't automatically assume the absolute worst.
RE: local dealers, by your location I'm assuming you're a Coleman Woodbridge rider... I'm shocked they were so blase, I've heard decent things about them. They're not a *great* dealer, and they ain't cheap, but they're not awful either. Might be worth giving them a chance, and of course, go armed with the info you get here, and ask them what they think.
As for alternative dealers, if you do run into trouble, here are the alternatives:
-- Coleman Falls Church: The next closest, my home dealer. Probably the same issues as Coleman Woodbridge-- they're not cheap, they're VERY busy, but I've had very good experiences with them over the past year.
-- Trumbull Motorsports in Mechanicsville, MD: I used these guys to install my floorboards, highway pegs and dash-mounted Powerlets. Labor's a little cheaper than down in VA *and* they did the work while I waited. Downside to them is that it's a hike from where you are, and there's nowhere to wait while they work: it's a small BRP/Can-Am only shop servicing Spyders, Sea-Doos and ATVs, I literally just plopped down in the parking lot and leaned against a crate for a couple hours. Thus, you'd want to convoy out there to go elsewhere to hang out.
-- Talbot Powersports in Easton, MD: Platinum dealer and comes highly recommended from some owners here on the board. But even more of a hike out on the Eastern Shore.
-- Fredericksburg Motorsports: Never heard anyone use them so I have no opinion. Did drive down to the shop one day just to check it out, a modestly-sized dealership that focuses mostly on other bikes, i.e. Spyders strike me as a small share of their business.
The downside to everyone is that we're now in Spring, so everyone is getting their bikes out of storage/tuned up so all the dealers are going to be busy-- and most of the Can-Am dealers here do dual-duty as Sea-Doo dealers/mechanics as well, so they're starting to spin up business too.
Good luck!