Oh, you definitely can lift a wheel on the Spyder, as you now know! :shocked:
The good news is, with proper technique it's rare to lift a wheel, and if you get in a real bad spot, the Nanny will kick in to adjust power and braking in order to bring your wheel down.
That said, I find that it's useful, if not absolutely essential, for new Spyder riders to discover *when* the Nanny kicks in, and how that feels, so they're not surprised when and if it does kick in. If you don't know how it feels, it can be a little upsetting (think of the first time you ever drove an ABS-equipped car, for instance). Worse, it can be upsetting at *just the precise moment* in your riding when you DON'T want it to be upsetting, i.e. if you're getting into enough trouble in a corner to trip the Nanny, that's probably not a time you want to get into MORE trouble.
I tripped the Nanny a few times in my trike class on an RT, just doing those sharp turns in a parking lot. That's the easiest and safest way to first know what the Nanny feels like, and how it automatically adjusts your power and braking (far better in a parking lot than on a mountain road).
One last note: having upgraded shocks and the anti-sway bar increases the margin of performance on the Spyder, "delaying" when you'll trip the Nanny-- you'll take far sharper corners at higher speeds before you lift a wheel and trip the Nanny. Alas, that's the upside-- the *downside* is that when you finally DO trip the Nanny in those instances, you're taking a far sharper corner at higher speed, leaving you less margin to react than you would have on a bone-stock Spyder (which would have likely tripped the Nanny far earlier). :shocked: