If really gritty, I wash it by hand with a good wash additive to the bucket of warm water.
The wash I use is Turtle Wax Rinse Free and Wax - it's a good once over, dry it, and looks great. I don't always follow it up with the spray wax.
The quick wax I use is Lucas Slick Mist Speed Wax....it seems the bugs come off a little easier when I utilize this as well...
There are a lot of choices out there, but after a couple years and 26,000 miles on our 2014 RT L , the bike still looks new.



I also use the Honda Spray Cleaner & Polish - leaves a great shine!
Good luck with your Spyder and the choices you make to keep it clean! :thumbup: