Dewd you have a lot of guts for doing what you're doing ....
:agree:Dave & Teddy - Just wanted to say how much I look forward to reading your posts hereHearing about your adventures together riding and working on your Spyder is something I really enjoy --so thank you and keep them coming !
Dave & Teddy - Just wanted to say how much I look forward to reading your posts hereHearing about your adventures together riding and working on your Spyder is something I really enjoy --so thank you and keep them coming !
Nicole, I have no words that can ease the pain from the loss of Maddie. I'm SO sorry. I'll be honest, cause I feel ashamed, that I've been kind of keeping my distance from you, dreading that this might be the outcome that none of us ever wanted to hear & knowing that I'm just too close to emotionally handle the loss, when its not even my own personal loss. We are family here, and when Teddy pulled me over to meet you and Jake, that just brought it all together for us. I'm sorry that I'm not emotionally stronger to be there more for you and Jake. Just know that Maddie, you & Jake have been in our prayers every night when Teddy & I go to bed & that won't change. My heart is in my throat right now & tears are streaming from my eyes ........... You are NOT alone my friendDave & Teddy - Just wanted to say how much I look forward to reading your posts hereHearing about your adventures together riding and working on your Spyder is something I really enjoy --so thank you and keep them coming !
Very well said!Nicole, I have no words that can ease the pain from the loss of Maddie. I'm SO sorry. I'll be honest, cause I feel ashamed, that I've been kind of keeping my distance from you, dreading that this might be the outcome that none of us ever wanted to hear & knowing that I'm just too close to emotionally handle the loss, when its not even my own personal loss. We are family here, and when Teddy pulled me over to meet you and Jake, that just brought it all together for us. I'm sorry that I'm not emotionally stronger to be there more for you and Jake. Just know that Maddie, you & Jake have been in our prayers every night when Teddy & I go to bed & that won't change. My heart is in my throat right now & tears are streaming from my eyes ........... You are NOT alone my friendray:
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After the roller coaster last night, I was drag'n my butt in here to work this morning to say the least. At 5am, I saw my co-worker Mary (who saved our trip to SITA by covering for me) & she saw that I wasn't wearing my 1st Gear Thermo-Ryding suit & knew right away that I'm still driving the Cougar & not ryding. She knows how depressed I get when I don't ryde & can tell just by looking at me. A few minutes later, she brings a big bag over to my break station where I was sitting & says "Here, I made this for you. Its home made chicken noodle soup & a couple little sandwiches I call Hammies. " I was a little overwhelmed, but I shouldn't be, that's just how she is. The day before, I explained to her that I should probably start looking for another department to bid into, one that gets overtime, unlike our department, where we're getting sent home early on a regular basis, and with the cut hours & trying to get all this stuff done with the Spyder, I'm really having issues with making ends meet. She had asked me about lunch the day before & I just told her I skipped it cause I wasn't hungry, but she saw right thru that & knew what was up. She has a side job working at a bar a few nights a week, so the cut in hrs doesn't effect her like it does with me.
Nicole, I have no words that can ease the pain from the loss of Maddie. I'm SO sorry. I'll be honest, cause I feel ashamed, that I've been kind of keeping my distance from you, dreading that this might be the outcome that none of us ever wanted to hear & knowing that I'm just too close to emotionally handle the loss, when its not even my own personal loss. We are family here, and when Teddy pulled me over to meet you and Jake, that just brought it all together for us. I'm sorry that I'm not emotionally stronger to be there more for you and Jake. Just know that Maddie, you & Jake have been in our prayers every night when Teddy & I go to bed & that won't change. My heart is in my throat right now & tears are streaming from my eyes ........... You are NOT alone my friendray:
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:agree: I donated the glasses, wheelchair, and other items to charities that pass them on to folks that can use them. I kept letters with family history uses, as the family genealogist, but others were discarded. We kept some little things around as mementos...a lamp, some candlesticks, etc., but other usable items went to Goodwill, and the junk went to the trash. It does our hearts good to know that some things had a second life, being useful to someone else. Keeping everything can be a huge burden...not only to you, in terms of space, but also in terms of their emotional burden. The memories are easier to deal with. Keep some mementos, but be strong about the rest. I'd put the glasses on top of the pail of shells, and stick it on the top of the dresser, as both a decoration and as a reminder that I could see and smile about daily.As to what do you do with the items?
As my sister and I were cleaning out my mom's apartment we came across a canning jar that we both knew about.
Both of us, I'm sure, heard her voice in our heads "That jar of blueberries is the first thing I ever canned."
My sister and I looked at each other.
And in syncopation that would make Ester Williams proud, we both put our hands on the jar and tossed it in the garbage bag.
That was over 30 years ago.
It's memories that matter, not the flotsam & jetsam of their lives.
:agree: I donated the glasses, wheelchair, and other items to charities that pass them on to folks that can use them. I kept letters with family history uses, as the family genealogist, but others were discarded. We kept some little things around as mementos...a lamp, some candlesticks, etc., but other usable items went to Goodwill, and the junk went to the trash. It does our hearts good to know that some things had a second life, being useful to someone else. Keeping everything can be a huge burden...not only to you, in terms of space, but also in terms of their emotional burden. The memories are easier to deal with. Keep some mementos, but be strong about the rest. I'd put the glasses on top of the pail of shells, and stick it on the top of the dresser, as both a decoration and as a reminder that I could see and smile about daily.