What friends are for.
Bi-Polar describes it best, and since this Spring, the Peaks have gotten higher and the Depths lower. Kiss and Spit. Praise and Punch.
Ride Like You Stole It and then fear to even think of riding it.
I don't know what is causing it, but I could not agree with Saluda more;
Lets put it this way, this site has always been the most agreeable, helpfull and co-operative site I have ever visited for any product. It's still great, I just sense a changing tone which may be due only to current problems people are experiencing. I'm not down playing any of those problems, only commenting on the tone as I see it.
We all have problems, just be happy we all don't have them at the same time. (How would you like to be in Deb and Brian's house with them both going through Sypder-withdrawl at the same time? :yikes: ) The number of people on this forum who help is incredible. And not just advice or the sharing of experiences;
they will bring you a trailer so your vacation is not ruined
they will loan you equipment/parts you need
they will research for you and get you the contacts you need.
they will painstakingly document how to fix something and stay with you until you "get it".
they will ride out and meet you, show you around, feed you, treat you like family.
they will escort you home when you need them to.
they will come to your house and help you install mods
they will meet you and walk you through your baby steps with the Spyder
and by example, they will show you the joys that riding can bring
When we can, we show our camaraderie through action and support.
That is what friends are for.
**** Warning, judgmental opinion follows ****
And friends should not get upset, panicky, and on their own personal dead horses when a friend has a problem. Those without the problem need to be there for support and to be an anchor when things get to be overwhelming. It just does not help when someone says "Fire!" and everyone just stands there and yells "Fire!" too. It is times like that when you discover who your real friends are. I will paraphrase Saluda's last sentence, these problems are not petty, but a lot of the whining responses are.
We are a diverse group and there is a lot of strength in that. But if each of us do not focus on the issue and contribute valuable support to those that need it, the things we value most in this forum ("this site has always been the most agreeable, helpfull and co-operative site I have ever visited") will evaporate.
Tom