Eric,
My story is very much like yours, but my "accident" was likely not as significant. I didn't start riding until I was in my 40's but since then I've enjoyed it a lot. I've always ridden larger cruisers. My last bike, which was my overall favorite, was a Yamaha Royal Star Venture - a large, tall touring bike, with a V-4 engine, that weighed over 900 lbs. with all the farkles I'd added. I bought it new in 2002.
I enjoyed long rides on that comfortable big bike, and sometimes, just for fun, rode that bike aggressively, often scraping the floor boards on the road. But as with most folks, as I got older, my legs and knees got weaker, and I started feeling a bit uncomfortable with such a big top-heavy bike, even though it fit me like a glove. About 18 months ago, I was making a slow U-turn at a back road intersection and came too close to the edge of the pavement. The bike started down and I couldn't get my foot off the floor board quick enough to catch it, so I went down with it. First time in my life I ever had an "accident" or put a bike down. Burned my leg on the hot engine, but my pride was hurt MUCH more!!
I'd had my eye on the Can-Am and had test driven one the year before. I liked it, but it felt "awkward" compared to my cruiser. But after the fall, I figured it was time. I gave my big Yamaha to my oldest son (who loves it as I did), and bought a 2013 Spyder RTL at "end of season" pricing. I've grown to love my RT. I was entirely comfortable with the ride after about 500 miles and the addition of a BajaRon anti-sway bar. (I'm a big guy, so I needed that extra stability in turns to counteract the centrifugal force.) Now, I simply love it and can't get enough of riding it. I also often ride it aggressively in the turns "just for fun", just like the Yamaha. Don't really miss the twisties on two wheels, like I thought I would.