Ego, needs and wants - the bane of our existence. Go for it. Find a Spyder that fits your budget, riding style and profile. Bought ours last March, 3 years ahead of schedule - was looking for my 70th birthday. Found one and was made a deal I could not refuse. Kept my '85 Honda Gold Wing Limited Edition - long term retirement project.
First rode a 2018 F3 Limited, and did a two up run with the Mrs. She found it to be good, and mentioned she would tour on it. Found our 2014 RTL through the friend network, did a ride on it two up, and she preferred it to the F3. Let her brother take the RTL for a weekend, then mentioned that my riding friend had the F3 that he might like. He test rose it, had it for a weekend, his Mrs liked the ride of the F3 over the RTL - personal preference. Two different Spyders, two different outcomes.
One year later, still want to ride two wheels, but recognize that the Gold Wing is not going to get any lighter, looked into smaller two wheel rides for my 70th birthday. Settled on the Royal Enfield Himalayan.
Riding friend had a 2021 Himalayan with 425 Kms on the clock. Discussed the Himalayan with him, and since he changes bikes like I change my underwear - he's going for the Guinness World Book for number of motorcycles owned I think, knew he'd be selling soon. It was well kitted, some 440 pounds lighter than the Gold Wing, good fuel economy, and fits my budget, riding style and profile. Made me an offer I could not refuse, bought it.
Moral of the story, find a good used one that you like and the Mrs will ride on, buy it and don't look back. Resale, worry about that later.
Good luck.