It is precisely this "Holier than thou" attitude that always vexes me most when this topic comes up. You want to be ATGATT? Fine. But if Bones chooses not to, then he shouldn't be subjected to a post of the type you aimed at him.
Your contention that his choice of gear will result in him being a paraplegic or saying you think he believes himself indestructible has about as much validity as a cager who believes the utmost safety is to be in his Chevy Suburban. And that YOU believe YOU are indestructible because YOU choose to ride that open air Spyder regardless of your ATGATT. The cager accuses YOU of lacking common sense and influencing young people to follow in your reckless footsteps. I wonder,,, in that circumstance,,, if you would say that cager's argument was less valid than the one you directed at Bones? You would probably still think that your opinion was the only one that was correct.
The fact of the matter would be that both you and the cager are correct to a point. You are correct that Bones would be safer in ATGATT than not. And that hypothetical cager would also be right that you would be safer in a Suburban than a Spyder. But thankfully, you have a right to make the choice to ride the Spyder. And if you can set aside your arrogance then you will see that Bones has that same darn right to choose.
Open air riding has risks. It is up to each individual rider to determine their acceptable level of risk. And they should have some reasonable expectation that they can voice their choice without having a post like yours directed at them.
My final point is that I have yet to meet anyone who meets my personal definition of the acronym ATGATT. That would require a rider to gear up 100% in the utmost protective gear every single time you get your Spyder on the road. Anything less than that is by its very definition, not ATGATT. At best it is MOTGATT Most of the gear all the time, or pick any other of the various levels of protection that a given rider wears at a given time. Obviously ATGATT is open to some interpretation and choice of what it means to any given rider.