PMK -- your explanation pulled the pieces together for me, including Joel the Biker's solution: new battery. Thanks!
The charging profile of the alternator is 850W @ 2910rpm and 1,250W@1720rpm. So while Marc was turning the handlebars while idling at 900rpm his alternator was close to maximum output and therefore maximum coupling load.
So I'll add a data point: shortly after I purchased the Spyder I replaced the Yuasa battery with a Shorai LFX36L3-BS12 (Joel the Biker also changed to lithium). And some months after I changed to Motul I added a second LFX36L3-BS12 (for S&G plus low price).
I'll continue my tendency of walking to the end of the plank:
1. When changing oils, especially type, be aware of the friction characteristics.
2. Spyder's are battery fussy so keep them fresh.
3. And tighten those star washers!