Mike, I know I am one of the newer ones here, but I have found you to be extremely helpful when asked a question. It would be a shame to lose all of the information you have provided. I truly hope this does not mean you are going away.
I have found that anything that is read can have the attitude or inflections of the person reading it applied to it. I find this causes many arguments at my work, people read sarcasm, anger, or think someone is being condescending when they are just asking for info or stating facts. If those same things were said or asked in person the true meaning would be understood. I sometimes think this happens on this site also, things are interpreted with the preconceived attitude the person reading it has of someone and not on its face value, it has happened to me.