I am coming off a 2006 BMW R1200RT to a 2012 Can-Am Spyder RT SE5 because my wife feels a lot safer and more comfortable on the Spyder. I really want to like it - but at 75-80 mph the buffeting is WAY worse than the beemer, the overall stability seems worse, I have to hold on tight all the time, especially in cross winds, where on the beemer, I could set back and it just stayed straight and true. I passed a semi at 80 and it felt like we were both gonna get blown over. Is there something I'm doing wrong?? Will it get better??