IF you're JUST doing HEADLIGHTS you can easily do that yourself. AND as others have said, you can watch a few Youtube videos and save yourself some money.
Doing the foglights FOR ME, required the frunk removal, MANY folks with smaller hands do it without Frunk removal. I felt exactly the way you did before several other Spyder folks convinced me that it really wasn't that hard to remove and replace the frunk FOR ME to get at the foglights.
Just to give you my perspective, I still haven't changed my own air filter, and you're halfway there doing an oil and filter change....