Still had issues after replacing the relay and it eventually failed after I washed my F3 a couple of weeks ago.
I was able to find a switch on slingmods for 12.95
https://www.slingmods.com/canam-spyder-f3-led-waterproof-center-console-switch?vehicle=1
But the wiring is different and I was wondering if i will have some issues with this switch. The wiring between the switch the diagram and what is actually there is different.
These are pics I took, I removed the pigtail from the OEM switch so I could use the connector to hook up the new switch. You can see the pigtail colors are different from the harness.

The F3 service manual show this for that wiring. I assume what is supposed to be a black ground wire in the number 3 position is the white wire coming off the pigtail.
Now we have the install diagram from slingmods with their color configuration. Which indicates
Red- LED + -Connect to a switched 12V ignition source so the switch lights up when the
ignition is on. (Optional)
Black - LED - -Connect to chassis ground for the LED circuit. (Optional)
Green- Input- 12V power source input. Must be fused near the power source to
protect the circuit (maximum 5A)
Blue - Output — Option 1 - Connect to the 12V accessory positive. The accessory powers ON when the switch is pressed and OFF when released.
Yellow - Output — Option 2 - Connect to the 12V accessory positive. The accessory powers ON when the switch is not pressed and turns OFF when the switch is pressed.
Now here is my main question, since the switch is operating a relay, the Blue and Yellow wires should not be used as there is no output from the OEM switch? 12 v comes in and then goes to ground.
Also since there is only 1 ground wire coming off the led and none for the switch should I have the grounds from position 1 and 3 connected to the black lead coming off of the switch together like I have in the picture in order to provide a ground or just leave pin 3 unconnected since there is no black (ground) coming off of the switch?