Okay, is this a gender thing? I'm confused (as usual)....
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Girls on Spyders
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Don't let a little thing like this initial rejection stop you Arkridia; what with your back surgery & all the things you'll have to go thru just to get around & do whatever you want to do, a knock back like this now just because you don't yet have a Spyder is really only minor on the overall scheme of things! Yes, you could quite possibly consider it petty on their behalf, but hey, who will lose out the most if you don't have another go at joining later?? Altho they might well lose out a little by never having the pleasure of your company or friendship... right now, it looks like in the long term, the biggest loser if you don't persist will be you. :gaah:
So suck this one up, take it for what it really is atm - just a minor stumble along the road, and go out there & get your Spyder & THEN join!! You will almost certainly benefit the most in the long run, and seriously, as time progresses you WILL get bigger & far more hurtful set-backs, especially now that your mobility isn't quite up to the same standard as that of most others!! Some people seem to take joy in making life hard for others by exercising whatever tiny bit of power over you/your circumstances they may have, and if you show the slightest sensitivity or difficulty with achieving something they can & you can't or that you might have difficulty with whatever, they'll pile it on!! And sometimes, that will mean you end up with some seriously BIG fights that you have no option but to winor knuckle under!! So save your strength for the big ones, & let the little stuff like this one go.... you are better than that, don't let this bring you down to that petty level - brush this re-buff off get yourself sorted & ryding your Spyder, and then join - and maybe even work to change whatever rule stopped you joining when you first needed their support from within! :thumbup:
And don't forget to show us pics when you DO get your Spyder!! Have you checked out the Enabled Spyder Ryders section yet?!? Lots of good ideas for brackets & frame carriers etc in there, as well as intro's from a whole heap of us who have managed to overcome a few different challenges than the 'run of the mill' Spyder Ryders, and a lot of support & help on tap if needed too! :thumbup: Enjoy!! :yes:
hyea::2thumbs:Thank you for responding I guess you are right with everything going on I did take it personally. I have checked out the enabled rider and Mike even offered to make me a frack for my walker once I get my spyder if I am not able to use a cane by then. I still have not made up my mind on what model but I am leaning towards an st or rs. I know I will not be able to afford a rt. Also, when I test drove the rt I had a harder time looking behind me, maybe that will change with neck surgery but for now this is what I am looking for. My hearing will be within 9 months according to the paperwork I received today. I will continue reading as much as I can on this forum to learn more about my options and maybe when I get my settlement someone on this forum will have one for sale.
flamingobabe
...in the pink (Girls On Spyders)
Arkridia....if you want to join Girls on Spyders....I am an administrator and I can make this happen.....when did you request to join? what is your Facebook name? I will personally add you...sorry for confusion....my name is Charlyne Baker
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SpyderAnn01
Active member
Tammy, I have sent your name to the moderator on Girls on Spyders Facebook page and she said that she went back several months and does not see a request from you. You will need to ask to join again and she will approve it. As I mentioned in my private message to you, I do not believe that anyone posts on the Girls on Spyders forum anymore, in fact I can’t even find the website.
flamingobabe
...in the pink (Girls On Spyders)
Tammy...Arkridia....you are now a member of Girls on Spyders....facebook
Floridian2017
Member
Hello. I just want to introduce myself since I’m new to the forum. I have a 2017 white RTS
GeorgiaMary
New member
Welcome
You should check out the Girls on Spyders Facebook page.
You should check out the Girls on Spyders Facebook page.
christeymg
New member
I just requested to join. I just got a Ryker. Not a Spyder but the same family. Hope I'm welcome!
ARtraveler
R.I.P. Dwayne
:welcome:
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This thread goes back to 2011. The last active post was in September 2018.
ldpost:This thread goes back to 2011. The last active post was in September 2018.
Little Blue
SpyderLovers Ambassador
It's been almost one year and nobody has posted. I'm not sure if something has happened to cause this or not.
Just wanted to let you Gals know.
Thanks for Looking.
Just wanted to let you Gals know.
Thanks for Looking.
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