Glen. Yes, it's like riding a 4 wheeler or a snow machine. Well, I guess you don't do too much snow machine stuff in OK. But anyway, you steer it. You don't lean it. Can be squirrelly if you have a death grip on the handle bars. Every little movement you make with your arms will impart a steering input to the front wheels. It's like riding a horse. Your arms are for steering, not for balance. So, relax your arms. Practicing using the cruise control actually helps when on the highway. Take your time with it and you'll learn how to balance yourself with your thighs and body. Soon you'll be riding using only one hand and taking pictures on your phone with the other. However, a laser alignment helps with everything. Some OK dealers here...
http://www.spydercomfort.com/dealersok.htm
If you haven't, read the Do's and Do Not's.
https://www.spyderlovers.com/forums...t-Do-s-and-Do-Nots-quot-for-new-Spyder-owners
I assume that 2013 has had the Recall performed on it. If not, you'll definitely want to get on that. Congrats.