Welcome to Spyders!

You'll love it!
First up check out this thread:
http://www.spyderlovers.com/forums/...t-Do-s-and-Do-Nots-quot-for-new-Spyder-owners
As for cornering each person develops there own style, I guess. What I see posted most often and works for me is this:
For sharp twisty turns -
Before the turn, make sure you're in a low enough gear to allow acceleration. Slow, look, push and roll still applies except it's more like slow, look turn and roll. Outside, inside, outside still applies but it will feel weird the first view times, you're much wider on a spyder. Going through the turn with enough speed and in a low enough gear to allow you accelerate through will make you happy.
1) lean slightly forward and towards the turn. (This is the biggest dispute you'll see. Try leaning then try not leaning and decide what works best for you.)
- Leaning on the spyder will feel different. When riding a two wheel it leans and you do not feel g-forces. The spyder does not lean, so similar to a car you will feel a g-force pushing you to the outside of the turn. Leaning in will counteract that.
2) Use thighs/knees for grip, don't try to hold yourself with your hands, the steering is sensitive and you'll get jerky movement.
3) So, keep a light grip, steer in the direction of travel, no countersteering on a spyder!
4) Push your outside foot into the footpeg
Before the ride, check your shock settings and tire pressure. You'll see more info on that in the dos and do nots thread. Most riders like more air than factory suggestions and stiffer shock settings for better handling.
So, have fun and try out a couple different methods and choose what works for you.
