Hey there,
I am 6'6", 360, a large guy in anyones book. I had test sat a HD triglide. It was beautiful, and about 36k. For me, it was "crowded". Seat and bars way too close together. Oh, we can sell you some different bars, no heated grips? Oh we can sell you those. Come on, 36k! I test sat my 2014 Spyder RTS and it was better. Not perfect, but better. Floor boards are supportive, and allow you to move your feet around quite a bit. I have never had another bike that is as quiet at the grips. Because of the fly-by-wire throttle there is no grip vibration at all, and your throttle hand will not go numb.....ever. The new RT is so powerful, quiet and effortless, it is certainly in a league of it's own. They do sell a nice adjustable handlebar ( not too interested ) and a seat that pushes the driver section back 2 inches, ( I am interested ). Like every bike I have ever owned, there are compromises. Or every car I have ever owned for that matter. The excellent so outweighs the bad with the spyder. I have logged 8 thousand miles in a little over 6 months, and every little ride is a joy. Just effortless pleasure. The ride quality is superior, they come with a quality lighting package for safety, they will stop on a dime. I am obsessed with mine. If you make the move, go gently at first, don't be afraid to use the "eco mode" it will still outrun most anything on the road. Once you learn how to do a little weight transfer in corners it will turn like on rails. Personally, I'm glad I waited for a '14 and the 1330 triple. I have heard plenty of bad news about the previous years. I don't think you'll regret it. Passenger comfort is High.