about my ex and a lil about my life

[cuznjohn]

first let me say i was never married, i lived with my ex for a lil over 10 years. she had lots of problems, drinking and later mental issues. i call her my ex because of the 10 years we lived together. it got to the point that i couldn't live that way anymore and i left and moved back in with my mom because i felt mom needed me more than Cathy, my ex. out of all the things in my life that have gone bad on me, the two worst were my prostate cancer in 1998 that really started her drinking and her drinking.

i left her and that put a lot of guilt on me. she had no family to speak of so when i left i could not let her live on the streets so i supported her for over a year, it cost me over 100k till i couldn't do it anymore and i stopped shelling out money. as big as i am and as mean as i might look, i am really a big softie. i tend to make jokes about my problems to help me deal with them. i say things about her for laughs on here and i leave my prostate jokes on facebook for the people that know my sense of humor get a good laugh with me.

i have not dated in years because of my prostate cancer, some people might understand this so i won't go into details on here, and i am not looking for any sympathy over my life because i am sure some people have worse problems than i do, but i just wanted to explain myself and why i mention my ex so much. i have tons of jokes but i am sure most of my jokes will not cut it on this forum. so most of the jokes i post are from friends on facebook that i figure you folks would enjoy. ok after being on the forum for over a year and having only met bob d and his wife i figured i would just open up a lil and explain myself.

NO RESPONSE NESSARY and if anyone has any questions on prostate cancer please PM me and i will try to answer your questions if i can. enjoy your day people

 

[flaggerphil]

I know where you're coming from, cuzn. Been there when I was married the first time.

 

[spyder3]

Its all good cuz........we all got things going on in our lives....self deprecating humor works for me to....although i do prefer bashing the EX more...:roflblack:

 

[oldguyinTX]

Cuz, you tried to do the right thing by supporting her for a year. Regardless of the money you gave her, sometimes folks have to try & help themselves. We cannot force them to do it, they have to be ready & willing to do it on their own. When you hit rock bottom, the only way to go is up. Stop beating yourself up. You are a good man, and did what you could to help her. It is up to her now. Let it go, you will be the better for it.

 

[cuznjohn]

Cuz, you tried to do the right thing by supporting her for a year. Regardless of the money you gave her, sometimes folks have to try & help themselves. We cannot force them to do it, they have to be ready & willing to do it on their own. When you hit rock bottom, the only way to go is up. Stop beating yourself up. You are a good man, and did what you could to help her. It is up to her now. Let it go, you will be the better for it.

she still tries to keep in touch with me but i have become very cold to her so i hope that will end soon. right now she lives in a half way house and is trying to get social security. being a alcoholic you are in tilted to ssi income because it is considered a disability, i never knew that

 

[acinpcola]

Hey Cuzn, I know from where you speak about joking and the health conditions. I do that also, sometimes it upsets the wife and then I have to explain again it just helps me deal with the disabilities. She really doesn't like when someone asks how I am and I reply, I am on the green side of the grass so life is good.

Have a Great Day and a Better Tomorrow, keep on joking...

 

[Bob Denman]

Hi John,
You can't save the Whole World .:shocked:.. you just have to keep doing the best that you can, with what you've got to work with...
And you've done that! :clap: :2thumbs:

 

[spyder3]

she still tries to keep in touch with me but i have become very cold to her so i hope that will end soon. right now she lives in a half way house and is trying to get social security. being a alcoholic you are in tilted to ssi income because it is considered a disability, i never knew that

hmm, i didn't know that either...cheers :cheers:

 

[bruiser]

My ex died so I can't bash her. I use the self deprecating humor too and it upsets the wife. Yesterday I found a 4" zero like you would use on an address on a mailbox. I put it on my forehead. She didn't like it at all.

 

[spyder3]

Bruiser....Jersey girls sometimes lack a sense of humor-) not you kris...:yikes:

 

[cuznjohn]

you know out of everything i said i forgot to mention the main thing i wanted to. i don't bash woman, i love woman. i love them so much i could be a lesbian, so if i ever upset a lady with what i post or say PLEASE LET ME KNOW. i will pull the post as fast as i can. being i was given a forced vacation from the site i tend to keep watching my joke posts to see if there is a bad comment and if there is i delete the post. but ladies it is all in fun so please take the joke with a grain of salt

 

[spyder3]

you know out of everything i said i forgot to mention the main thing i wanted to. i don't bash woman, i love woman. i love them so much i could be a lesbian, so if i ever upset a lady with what i post or say PLEASE LET ME KNOW. i will pull the post as fast as i can. being i was given a forced vacation from the site i tend to keep watching my joke posts to see if there is a bad comment and if there is i delete the post. but ladies it is all in fun so please take the joke with a grain of salt

That clears it all up!!!:yikes::yikes:

 

[PrairieSpyder]

Hi John,
You can't save the Whole World .:shocked:.. you just have to keep doing the best that you can, with what you've got to work with...
And you've done that! :clap: :2thumbs:

:agree:

And John, FYI, your cancer didn't make her drink! Get over that one.

 

[cuznjohn]

:agree:

And John, FYI, your cancer didn't make her drink! Get over that one.

hun it was our love life that changed and she felt it was rejection towards her. like i said she had a lot of problems

 

[Bob Denman]

John,
:shocked: Not for nothing; but I think that you would NOT be a very attractive Lesbian...

 

[cuznjohn]

John,
:shocked: Not for nothing; but I think that you would NOT be a very attractive Lesbian...

bob you aint seen nothing like me on a friday night all dressed up

 

[Bob Denman]

:shocked: Okay; I'll admit that your legs are a lot nicer than mine...

 

[cuznjohn]

here you go

 

[Bob Denman]

:shocked: You might need to change the blades in your "Lady Schick" razor... :shocked: :roflblack: :2thumbs:

 

[spyder3]

Maybe you 2 should get a room?:dontknow: