My father in law just traded in his 2008 M109R2. It was a big heavy bike with the 1800 CC motor, and in very slow turns he dropped it onto the crash bars a couple of times. He put nearly 20,000 miles on it, a lot of it riding with either my wife or I on our Spyders. His was black with carbon fiber accents and a bunch of chrome, but hardly anybody ever made comments about his bike. They were all too busy checking out the Spyder. nojoke
He traded it on a Boulevard C50, which is an 800 CC and has a very retro look to it. For the very first time, the other day, we were stopped at a gas station and someone walked up and commented on his bike without commenting on the Spyder. He was totally shocked. :roflblack:
Don't let the age thing get to you. The Spyder is a blast to ryde and will draw lots of attention anywhere you go. The M109R is a bit of a beast, and if you haven't ridden since the road test that is definitely something to keep in mind.
Best of luck with making your mind up on which will be best for you. :thumbup: