why don't you have another spyderlovers rider in your area that has an RT, switch rides for a day and see if it
is you, your set up or the bike. And you try out the other persons ride you will gain more insight.You say you
have tried different adjustments, but don't say what those are except in generalities. I know it can be frustrating
. But take this on as an adventure.You say you have
had bikes for over 40 years, well that is probably more a liability with this beast than a +. You are comparing
every riding sensation to what you previously knew. that's not gonna help. Change your attitude with riding
this bike. The suggestion of loosening your grip is only part of it. You have a greater fear possibly of being
blown over. Do you ride with a helmet? does it have a face mask?
The reason I ask is even those things
can create a different experience for each of us. For me one of my idiosyncrasies is Ihave to ride with gloves.
When I was in gusty winds yesterday, I was
riding with the face mask in down position, I was constantly lowering my windshield on the freeway, and also changing my foot
positions, and these things made my experience feel as though I was staying in control. And hey i got to the SuperBowl party intact.
Please keep us informed to your decision. Sometimes the answer is gonna be the hardest. Fixing your
habits to this 3 wheel machine.