YAY! I was finally right about something this week! ( At your expense).
Cupping isn't bad depending who you ask and it greatly depends on where the cupping is happening...Generally, if it is uniform on the whole tire/tread, I think most accept it as liveable, but one sided like yours might be worth keeping an eye on. For the load of the Spyder on a car tire, I presume that other than some road noise or vibration from that tire you might have nothing to worry about.
That said... The cupping blows a small whole in your theory... While I think you are correct that the stock fronts are el'cheapo, it seems that same inner wear issue is happening with your new front car tires... So that logically points to an issue other than just tires alone. So it has to be either alignment or the suspension. Given you had two different Spyders with the same issue, either you had two Spyders out of alignment, or there is something about the Spyder suspension that is lacking for use with the design of the Spyder? Agree or disagree?
Either way... You did solve a mystery, We know that after market tires wear better than the stock tires, but that the inner side wear on them is indeed real. Are you going to get your alignment checked? I looked real close at my Fronts with 8500 miles and already notice they are wearing more on the inside.
For those that didn't pick it out in the picture... Look at the right side of the tire. The treads look kinda snaggle toothed... That is cupping.
I still don't see it...must be tired impaired! argh!