Is this a brand new spyder? I see you just joined this month, so I was wondering. If so, keep track of the number of times you had to return to the dealer for the same problem, and how long you have been down as a result of that problem. Also check your "lemon laws" to see if your situation meets the criteria.
IMHO, if this is brand new, you shouldn't have to suffer while they "figure it out". You dropped alot of coin on this thing, now you have to park it? They better be working on this free of charge...
So indeed work with them, but there does come a time when you have to start wondering if you are being jerked around. In the mean time, do some research, check the lemon laws, and then when you do get too frustrated, you have that info on your side. Knowledge is power. If they know that you have already looked into this, and that they may have to give you a replacement, or buy yours back, they'll figure it out real fast.
I originally had some problems with my dealer - they kept slipping the delivery date. I didn't make threats (not yet), but I did express my frustration with the issue, and painted them a really good picture of my legal argument. They got it in, and they called their techs in early to get it set up for me. Since then, I have had no issues with them - sales or service, so I'm glad that we were able to get past that problem and build a working relationship, so I fully understand your desire to stay with your dealer. Just be fore-warned that if the service department doesn't have competent technicians, your spyder experience will not be all it can be.