Rest assured, if the upgrade could have been accomplished with zero changes it would have been done that way. The complexity of making all the different browsers, interact and play well sometimes has "concerns". As was already mentioned, without an upgrade, there would be nothing at all here. Most likely your Spyderlovers fix would have been via Facebook, and no doubt that raises the hair on the neck of many.
The site / forum controls are in good hands and while some changes are less popular and forced upon us, not by the person implementing the required changes, the forum software and the company that distributes that software is the root of the changes.
Anthony has been very receptive to smoothing out every pebble in the road he possibly can. I had asked about being able to scroll multiple photos in a topic, he enabled that which we previously did not have. Myself, I am having spellcheck issues on the IPad at this site. He reached out and we tried to resolve it not just for me, but everyone.
Yes, sometimes, stepping back from the keyboard and then reapproaching is a good way to reengage. Certainly no shame in that.
I am confident that with a bit more distance on the learning curve, it will all become easy and with great flow.
I often explain to others, regarding various technical topics outside of Spyders, or maybe in regards to riding features on Mountain Bikes. Adapt, Overcome and Conquer. Same applies here.
Have fun and all the best with it.