Pennyrick
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Rattigan Roger's recent thread about next and next generated some back and forths from folks about the way people interpret communications.
Reminds me of an embarrassing day in 1980. I was raised in Canada but moved to Michigan in '73 and then Ohio in '78. In 1980 the company promoted me to head up their operations in East Tennessee.
On my first week on the job I was in the production department reviewing some procedures with the staff and I told one staffer that I thought one job could be performed in a different, but more efficient manner.
"I don't care to do that", she replied.
I repeated my thoughts on the job and once more I got the "I don't care to do that", response.
Later, I took her aside and told her I didn't like her attitude. She broke into tears and couldn't seem to understand why I was so upset with her.
Then, one of her co-workers explained to me that in the vernacular of the mountains of East Tennessee she was telling me that things were fine and she agreed to do as I asked. "When she says she has 'no care' that is the same as 'no objection' in her mind."
It wasn't the first time I was tripped up on the special language of the mountains but I was very careful after that.
Reminds me of an embarrassing day in 1980. I was raised in Canada but moved to Michigan in '73 and then Ohio in '78. In 1980 the company promoted me to head up their operations in East Tennessee.
On my first week on the job I was in the production department reviewing some procedures with the staff and I told one staffer that I thought one job could be performed in a different, but more efficient manner.
"I don't care to do that", she replied.
I repeated my thoughts on the job and once more I got the "I don't care to do that", response.
Later, I took her aside and told her I didn't like her attitude. She broke into tears and couldn't seem to understand why I was so upset with her.
Then, one of her co-workers explained to me that in the vernacular of the mountains of East Tennessee she was telling me that things were fine and she agreed to do as I asked. "When she says she has 'no care' that is the same as 'no objection' in her mind."
It wasn't the first time I was tripped up on the special language of the mountains but I was very careful after that.