There's a way to figure out your number***
Click on "Community"
Scroll down to "Member list", and click on it.
Once that's in front of you, click on the "Join Date" header TWICE.
(The first time lists it from latest to oldest; you want it counting from older to newest...)
Now comes the FUN part...

You need to know exactly what day you joined SpyderLovers.
You can find your join date in your member profile information.
(In my case: September 20th, 2010)
Just work your way through the pages, until you find your date and name.:thumbup:
There are (At least on my system!) 30 listings per page...
Count all of the FULL pages of names, and then the number of them that are on the page with your name that came before you...
You're the next number! :thumbup:
Using my join date as an example:
My name shows up #11, on page 157
so 156 times 30 equals 4680.
Add 11 to that, and I guess that I'm #4691
*** This method doesn't allow for members who have joined, and then had their name deleted from the list... I don't know if there's any way to account for those members.