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09-26-2018, 08:09 PM
#476
Very Active Member
2005 Windveil Blue Premium Mustang Convertible
2008 Honda GL1800/California Sidecar Trike, SOLD
2014 Platinum Silver Satin Spyder RTL, SOLD
Semper Fi
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09-26-2018, 08:19 PM
#477
formerly pman2011
Doc,
I am so sorry for your loss as I can relate to what you are going through and how the upcoming days will be for you. I lost my wife suddenly and unexpectedly 2 1/2 years ago.
I remember meeting Kathy and You during the Spyder Event in Maggie Valley, 2016. You and Kathy were a great team, worked well together and loved each other.
I will keep you and your family in my prayers as you go through this difficult time.
[B]
2018 Intense Red F3T (See About Me under My Profile for mods)
2010 Timeless Black RT-622 Trailer
2014 Timeless Black RTS-SE6, 34,300 Miles, traded May 2019
2011 Timeless Black RTS-SE5, 15,180 Miles, traded April 2014
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09-26-2018, 08:24 PM
#478
Member
Continuing Prayers!
Our hearts are breaking and rejoicing at the same time. We are inspired by the tremendous love and faith of Doc and Kathy.
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09-26-2018, 08:53 PM
#479
GOS member (Girls On Spyders)
Kathy
Heart is breaking for my friend. Prayers Doc for you and your family. I feel you did the right thing. ((Hugs))
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09-26-2018, 08:54 PM
#480
Those that are remembered are never trully gone. (not my saying)
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09-26-2018, 09:39 PM
#481
~Sandee~
2016 RT-L (Purchased used in February 2018)
RT Dash Mount (from JT's Spyder Store)
Kuryakin Trident Highway Pegs
Hopnel Pouch
Magic Mirrors
Spyderpops Foam Handgrips
Iron Butt #35273
Girls on Spyders #2779
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09-26-2018, 09:53 PM
#482
Active Member
Originally Posted by Bob Denman
Sad news; but she is with The Lord now.
Do not mourn her passing: celebrate her life!
Have any decisions been announce regarding services for her?
See post #456 for details
Pat "EAGLE27"
2016 F3 Limited
Ultimate drivers backrest, baja ron sway bar, LED headlights, Wolo horn, highway pegs from Pitfall, trailer hitch and 590 GPS
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09-26-2018, 09:59 PM
#483
Active Member
Originally Posted by Roadster Renovations
Praise report for Kathy 9/25 - I did not go up today. I felt that I needed to give Kathy's children as much time with her as they could have. So I am sure that went well. I have verified with her MD's that we will start at 12 noon tomorrow. If possible, we will come to you live on here as we do her healing and going home prayer. Got to give her a chance to say goodbye to all of her friends. She may of may not have much motor skill so she may not be able to do her customary thumbs up, and if that is the case, we will try for a smile and a nod. Kathy cannot Thank you each enough for the prayers, beautiful cards, the shawls, beautiful quilts, and blankets. One of her good friends even sent her a favorite bracelet. You know some of the less understanding folks would think of this outcome as a failure; that God let her down. That is not true. As Christians we are charged to pray for something as if it was. That doesn't mean what we pray for will be granted. It depends if it works into HIS master plan. You see, we only are able to view a very small part of GOD's PLAN. Someone gave me the best explanation of that I have ever heard and I will now give it to you. I encourage you to share it also.
God's plan is a large picture on a wall and we are standing so close to it that our nose is touching it. From that position, we can only see a very small part of the overall picture. That is why we should not despair when a prayer is not granted. We need to Believe that God, Our Father is good and has our best interests in His heart for us. That is where our faith comes in. I don't need to see that Kathy will go to Heaven. I know she will.
Please join us tomorrow at 12 noon (Indiana Time) as we say our final goodbye. The funeral will be at Jewell Ritman Funeral Home here in Columbus on Monday, October 1. Family calling will be from 10AM to 11:30AM and Friends Calling will be from 11:30AM to 1:00PM, when the funeral will start. Kathy will have her favorite Pastor Jerry Ballard from 7th Street Church of God officiating. In the event there is a rein delay (God's Spiritual Rein) pouring down and healing Kathy, we will modify the above schedule accordingly. I believe just as equally that God will receive Kathy into Heaven or heal her completely so that she astounds the doctors and nurse as she walks out of the place. Regardless of her outcome I will continue to praise His Holy Name. Please pray with me that God's Will be done!!
Sorry to hear of your loss. Words means little in situations like this, but prayers mean a lot.
2014 Spyder RTS
Tri Axis Handlebars
Big Bike Trailer Harness
Rivco Front Bumper (Black)
Rivco Highway Pegs
Ultimate Seat
Garmin GPS
Trailer Hitch
Aluma XL Trailer
Stainless Grill Covers
Cupholder
Spring Stiffeners
Rivco Floorboards
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09-26-2018, 11:17 PM
#484
SpyderLovers Sponsor
My deepest condolences to you and your family, a lot of riders and friends here sharing in your grief right now.
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09-26-2018, 11:34 PM
#485
Active Member
Doc,
May the Lord be with you and Kathy. She was a lovely lady, I enjoyed speaking to her at a couple of past rallies. You have our deepest sympathy and condolences.
Current: "Scarlett", 2017 Can Am F3-T, SE6, Intense Red Pearl.
BRP heated grips, DIY brake light strip and turn signal strips, Chrome/LED brake light tag frame, SpyderPops bumpskid, Baja Ron swaybar and billet links, Lamonster Third Peg, BRP Adjustable Passenger Backrest, SpyderPops Missing Belt Guard, ShowChrome oversize brake pedal, TricLED foglights.
Previous: "Synthia", 2014 Can Am Spyder RT, SM6, Pearl White.
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09-27-2018, 05:20 AM
#486
Active Member
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09-27-2018, 06:16 AM
#487
Very Active Member
Doc I'm so sorry for your loss.
May you find peace in knowing that you helped make Kathy's transition a little easier.
God Bless!
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09-27-2018, 07:46 AM
#488
Very Active Member
Doc
Most of us will never have to face what you have in the last few months
Kathy was lucky to have you carry out her wishes although not an easy decision to make your faith, Love and devotion to Kathy has been evident in all your posts
Keep strong as you come to terms with your loss
I have only dealt with you as a buyer from the UK but have nothing but adminration for showing us all how life can have unexpected turns but there is a way forward
Condolences to you, your family & friends
Eddie Sheppard
Poole Dorset UK
Get a Spyder - See the World
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09-27-2018, 09:00 AM
#489
Active Member
My thoughts and heart is with you and yours. Thank you for sharing this journey with us.
2017 F3-L Intense red "Wings"
Spyderpops Spyclops Light
Tric LED Headlights and Fog lights
Madstad Windshield
Phoenix - Wrap My Spyder
Lamonster Highway Pegs
BajaRon Sway Bar
Rich's Custom Seats
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09-27-2018, 09:31 AM
#490
Active Member
"Be careful for nothing; but in every thing by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known unto God. And the peace of God, which passeth all understanding, shall keep your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus." Philippians 4:6-7
2013 RT Limited.
BajaRon Sway Bar.
Refined Cycle's BPE2 brake pedal extension.
Pedal Box
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09-27-2018, 09:57 AM
#491
Very Active Member
Be strong Doc. God is with both of you.
Kaos----- Gone but not forgotten.
2014 RTS in Circuit Yellow, farkle-ing addiction down to once every few months. ECU FLASH IS GREAT.
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09-27-2018, 10:07 AM
#492
Very Active Member
Stay strong Doc.
A tremendous amount of courage was shown by all involved in the process. Makes me sad nevertheless.
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09-27-2018, 10:16 AM
#493
Very Active Member
Doc, My heart feels sunk since I read that Kathy had Passed. You both Fought so hard for so long. Prayers and Love to you and the family, May you have peace and the comfort that only the Holy Ghost provides. Kathy has run her coarse and is at her reward.
2017 F3 Limited
2017 F3 Limited , Lamonster Black Dymond brake pedal with brake rod at #5 Pure Magnesium Metallic
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09-27-2018, 10:23 AM
#494
Active Member
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09-27-2018, 04:23 PM
#495
Very Active Member
you both are in Gods hands. let him lead you and hope you find peace. AMEN!
Last edited by irvin48; 09-27-2018 at 04:29 PM.
2015 rts-white pearl- mods- '16 F3 fat 6 chrome wheels,
and some little stuff. setback utopia backrest, baja ron
sway bar, oem adj. air deflectors, marlin gps compass,
lamonster fbb foot pegs[modified brackets], lamonts
vibration damper, rock guard, and side case stiffener kit,
. brp comfort seat. , fomozas and
altimax, magic mirror mts, and wide mirrors.
[joyce & irvin toms]
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09-27-2018, 04:26 PM
#496
Active Member
our hearts go out to you and your family may Kathy rest in peace
BAJARON SWAY BAR PLUS LINKS
BAJARON SPACER
ULTIMATE SEAT WITH GAS DOOR
JT SHELF BAR
SPYDERFLAP
BUMPSKID
XM RADIO
POWER OUTLET
LAMONSTER CUP HOLDER
2015 RT LIMITED
PIN STRIPPING BY MACK THE KNIFE
RIVCO FLAG HOLDER
SENA SM10 BLUE TOOTH
LAMONSTER FBB HIGHWAY BRACKET WING BOARD BLK
BPR TRAILER HITCH
KRADELLOCK FOR THE GPS
BIG BRAKE PEDAL BY TRICLED
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09-27-2018, 07:04 PM
#497
I'm so very sorry, Doc. May peace finally replace the battle you both fought so valiantly. My deepest condolences to you and your family.
2015 Sypder RT-S SE6
2016 Polaris Sportsman 570 ATV
2003 F250 SuperDuty
American Saddlebred Horses
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09-27-2018, 08:42 PM
#498
My condolences to you, Doc. I'm sure Kathy thanks you for abiding by her wishes.
Love and hugs to you.
Pam and the rest of the Spyder Systers.
Pam
2020 F3 T
I like nonsense, it wakes up the brain cells.
Fantasy is a necessary ingredient in living.
Dr. Seuss
2020 F3 T - Liquid Titanium
Previously owned
- 2015 ST L
- 1997 Suzuki Marauder VZ 800
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09-27-2018, 08:44 PM
#499
Very Active Member
In my physical, I am sad, but in my Spirit, IN MY SPIRIT, I AM HAPPY THAT SHE IS NOW FREE!
Her body was bruised and broken and we tried for so very long to her to get better, but it seemed she would take one step forward and then two back. I had a RN tell me that she probably would die, but I didn't believe him. Wondering if he was an angel preparing me for this?? Who knows?
After she had the seizures and they told us the massive extent of the damage, I knew that she wouldn't want to live like that. No way! Especially since the very thing she was so afraid of had come to pass.
I feel honored that God chose me to be her advocate against those wanting to keep her alive. There selfish actions have caused me to kick the dust off of my sandals and get away from them.
17 Therefore
“Come out from among them
And be separate, says the Lord.
Do not touch what is unclean,
And I will receive you.”
2 Corinthians 6:17-18 (NKJV)
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09-27-2018, 10:01 PM
#500
Originally Posted by Roadster Renovations
In my physical, I am sad, but in my Spirit, IN MY SPIRIT, I AM HAPPY THAT SHE IS NOW FREE!
Her body was bruised and broken and we tried for so very long to her to get better, but it seemed she would take one step forward and then two back. I had a RN tell me that she probably would die, but I didn't believe him. Wondering if he was an angel preparing me for this?? Who knows?
After she had the seizures and they told us the massive extent of the damage, I knew that she wouldn't want to live like that. No way! Especially since the very thing she was so afraid of had come to pass.
I feel honored that God chose me to be her advocate against those wanting to keep her alive. There selfish actions have caused me to kick the dust off of my sandals and get away from them.
17 Therefore
“Come out from among them
And be separate, says the Lord.
Do not touch what is unclean,
And I will receive you.”
2 Corinthians 6:17-18 (NKJV)
Okay, we have listened, we have have commiserated and some have prayed. I think it's time to move on because this is seriously religious and has no place on this forum, if I correctly understand the rules.
2014 RTL Platinum
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